Intj ignoring me I greeted him back You are right in that INTJs (at least for me) rarely step out of their comfort zones. He also let me know that even though INTJ I’m deeply hurt by him ignoring me while knowing this is difficult for me too. "If you don't strike a conversation with them everyday, However, they can also be cold and distant towards people they don’t like. If they believe that someone is ignoring them they will become frustrated and eager to figure out why. Ask about it Just want another INTJ to tell me if i should stop annoying him and leave. I want you to tell me that you're sorry for the things that you did, which you know, which I won't list here. You've reached their limit and I was just wondering under what circumstances would an INTJ choose to If an INTJ isn't interested in you anymore would they tell you straight up or let it What's more likely, more than one INTJ ignoring an ENFP thread, or an He has been ignoring me for almost 1 year now, i have let go the possibility of To me, it sounds like he is acting how I would act when someone is interested in me but I'm not I am a INFP woman, and i have a guy friend (INTJ). Trust me. I knew exactly what they were going to say when they gave me that look, and I knew that One thing I've learned as I've gotten older though. At least for me, those strong feelings of infatuation are actually caused by anxiety. my subreddits. patreon. I think too many people here see INTJ's through a very limited manner and try and emulate them because they like the idealized concept of an INTJ, ignoring variables I take awhile to reply (awhile as in hours, days, even weeks). So long story short, I really like this INTJ guy I go to high school with, I expected him to continue with the ignoring but as he was passing by HE GREETED ME. He was ignoring For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers INTJ dumped me (INFJ) I think I did the right thing by not accepting friendship even though I feel very cruel for ignoring/possibly hurting someone's feelings. However I do believe we both are tired of the Why did my INTJ boyfriend ghost me for over two weeks We were doing so well. 2-In case they are still ignoring me or just the excuse was like "Don't wanna talk to you, take the hint", I cut down Why does INTJ ignore me when i ask him out? Question (same guy from previous previous post where i ask how to confess to intj) before i ask him the question i dare not speak of, i just I met this guy who’s an ENFP (I’m an INTJ), we went to the restaurant together and we talked a lot about interesting things. It happens often to various different people I do have a crush on. It baffles me. For me, I Right, that's a workaholic INTJ ignoring pain for months), and that nice smelly thing got me hooked on all kinds of feelgood stuff from epsom salt baths to keto, and now I seriously feel I seem to have issues with people ignoring me a lot and I'm not really sure how to handle it. He did not like the 'forever' word. The less we share about our personal lives, the better. u/porknsheep, you think maybe ur clumping people together? U can't be Older intj (50+), business setting (obvious reason for many to avoid potential issues). Being INTJ Reasons for Ignoring: Introverts may seem distant due to a need for personal space or overwhelming social situations; their withdrawal is not necessarily a personal rejection. I am facing above average ignoring so I wonder can I be so unimaginative and bad at work. They can't tell the difference between "ignoring" and "not talking". You act like a pedant while ignoring the pejorative context in which the words are used in the real world. Anyway, my Chat all things INTJ on the Discord server! ⬇️ Patreon: https://www. The amount of time I take to reply varies and usually has to do with me just being really overwhelmed with talking to people. This shows how Yep, that wouldn't be un-INTJ-like either. I know that is the worse I know I'm not an INTJ but I have close INTJ friends and I am ENF* like you. Candid photo of my (ENFP) For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. Once, he was rude to me, again in a group setting, and I was shocked, because it came out of nowhere. He said that he wanted to show me some others places around About me : 17, INTJ, M4F I do it when I these things happen : You hurt me and you showed me like you don't care for me and I don't matter for you in long-term You asking why he didn’t He still messaged me everyday like maybe 2-4 times a day and sometimes he would call and it hurt because it was never like that. NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects. He reads it, but he doesn't respond. Check the r/INTJ rules Same, and I have a bad habit of ignoring my crush if they are looking at me to avoid staring at them. My guy friends sometimes teases me even when he's around. The issue started 3 months ago, they kept making fun of me I have been seeing this INTJ over the past two weeks. Next, since Te is an extroverted function it actually becomes obvious in differentiating between INTJ and I do have a feeling he won't respond at all. and asked him why plug X was ignoring me and he said that plug X probably stained (finessed/ran off with my money) but ive Anyways, he ended up just ignoring me and here is the annoying. I can understand if the Next thing an INTJ girl broke up with me (ISFP) three weeks ago. I wear my discontent on my face when someone is being incompetent or ignoring their work duties. I can deal with someone being outright hostile with me, but I don't know how to act when I am not sure if they Lately, I've been talking to an INTJ girl on social media, The thing is, when talking to her, I've felt comfortable (which is rare for me because I get a lot of social anxiety, especially when it I am dating this INTJ man for almost two years now. Some of my classmates told me he definitely liked me, and I should call or text him ESTJs definitely dislike being ignored, and will likely become rather pushy if this occurs. If you want advice, then be careful about ignoring the advice too often as, for the INTJ, you become a bother, and your Ignoring is something I do. Like I said this isn't the first time this happened, and usually I'll confront him, and sort of push him in the corner, like "Look dude, do In fact now that I think about when he's mad or something bothers him, he RARELY ever speaks up, I only get the truth if I confront him. And I know for sure that he hears his name Check the r/INTJ rules and the FAQ before posting. He also told me numerous times This is a good point. Fast forward, 11 years later (2013), He has been ignoring me for almost 1 year If INTJ's are as similar to each other as this subreddit suggests, When they asked why I was being a dick and ignoring them, this caused me to overthink the situation even more, adding to For a period of time, he picks on me in the intj crushing-on-you manner which I'm extremely familiar with myself. i had a whirlwind relationship with Ignoring them won't make life easier for them, and they'll go one being misguided as ever, either because their parents didn't actually try to raise them or don't understand them. I was doing my long term plan of getting closer to him by ignoring parts of me. We've been together for 3 months now. And I have been asking him for clarificatin towards I grew up with an ESFJ mother and an ISTJ father, so I'm an expert at ignoring SJs. Suddenly he stopped talking to me, ignores my texts and 212 votes, 114 comments. Question I met this girl online, I'm infp if that helps, we've been talking for 2 weeks almost every day, Btw keep in mind that some socially 45 votes, 126 comments. He let go of some of the individuals Outright ignoring the crush Other strange conflicting behavior etc Given I’m right, should I just let the INTJ carry on with this odd behavior until he’s comfortable enough to ask me out. For me if I dont really fuck with you or worse just completely ignoring you then I dont consider you that close with me, more like an acquaintance but, if i really give you shit pretty much every For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. I felt shy suddenly. INTJ Forum - The Scientists #shorts #short #shortvideo INTJ, 16 Personalities, Myer Briggs He let me see him checking me out when I wasn't his student anymore. I am a question answerer as well. Hurr durr INTJs can be super social cuz I’m super social I’ve always kept a sizeable distance from colleagues. For example, I'll be at dinner with a group and someone is telling a story, then something will NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers. 179K subscribers in the intj community. Or it de-escalates the Or have a problem and not want to fix the problem right away. youtube. You know your stuff well, and that can make you the leader of the topic/conversation--- once you get going, it's easy to stay going--- and you Would "are you being passive aggressive with me" be a good way to deal with this. But as an adult vs when I was younger, I'm also very cautious about expressing 11 votes, 20 comments. I wont be passive aggressive - I'm direct with my need for space and As an INTJ, I'm notorious for appearing very stubborn and, in the moment, the people closest to me think I'm completely ignoring advice that they're giving me. Everything was fine and we were happy. INTJ Forum - The Scientists NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects. I see a lot of people here having this reasonnement: "You don't think like me, therefore you're not INTJ". That constant awareness of ignoring red-flags or I went to therapy for about 6 years and it helped me learn a lot about myself. He also keeps me on track with his J-Ness— (Me:INTJ/F married to INTP/M) As a side note, INTJs can be very clingy, it just isn't common or shared with many people. People who try to meddle in the drama themselves are no better than the gossipers. I know him since my college day (2002). Check the r/INTJ rules and the FAQ Ignoring that loyalty in some instances in the INTJ I've known for years started acting flirty around me even brushed my hand with his🙄 thinking he liked me I started to get a crush on himhe wanted to give me his car and he told me he If you’re ever in doubt whether an INTJ likes you just ask, they will respect you for having the balls to ask and they will be honest with you. It went from “John is ignoring me” and perceiving it has a personal attack, to “John must be busy, we’ll have to talk later”. I'd say Yes of course! Especially if she is a quality friend. Or I'm an ENTP, I changed school in the begining of the school year, i made new friends and they also know mbti personality types. In that period he would start conversations over text and we had seen each other about seven times. ” 15. I then again send him a revised draft but he I can’t take it anymore, and it’s starting to frustrate me a lot. Maybe it's just me, but I would risk looking a fool to not lose My friend/former crush (INTJ, 17f) has left me (INFJ, 18m) on read for almost 2 months now. I think that this is very odd like I know that she started college in September so I understand Ive been exclusively seeing this intj guy now for 4 months and its been a pattern with him leaving me on read and im just wondering if it is normal for you guys. But then an entp guy started flirting with me(I hardly After that situation, I texted him and we talked casually the next day and, then the day after that day, we talked again and things were good--we talked about a show we both 3 stages: 1-If they are so important and actually worth the bother, ask why. “Sadly for me, I fit perfectly into Someone, who I have a crush on, barely reached out to me. I don't look at him at all and mostly act like I'm playing on my phone. He was too kind and friendly with me as he was with others,but suddenly he completely and intentionally started ignoring me not having Why is he ignoring me? How hard is it to just say you don't like the person back rather than ignore them and act rude and selfish and immature. Agree! I can't withstand anyone ignoring me so I never But I would be surprised if he was ignoring me deliberately to try to let me know how it feels to not be certain of feelings, since we both were pretty certain that we liked each I think it's INTJ thing in general to completely ignore the person whom they find attractive unless and until we know them personally. 161K subscribers in the intj community. Check the r/INTJ rules and the FAQ before posting. If you can’t fix it - and you shouldn’t have to, if your partner is the one ignoring or ridiculing you - then you can leave and He gave me a lot of attention in the initial days and then now he is sort of ignoring me. You guys, I think my ENFP friend/lover no longer wants to be close to me and I am super confused and sad. In particular, I learned to stop ignoring my emotions and to embrace them. Members Online • Psychological-Bus699. Rather than try to see me while he was working, he told his work that Someone does that to me and I speak up "Excuse me, we were talking" and I move my body if possible to block the other person. ADMIN MOD Am I evil for distancing myself from my sick friend who's been ignoring me . I agree! I just had an INTJ share with me last night that some people would approach and bother him due to his After 2 years of online classes i met him at highschool. Btw, He also has ADHD I forgot to mention. Or INTJ doesn't know how to face OP In this article, we’ll explore the reasons behind an INTJ’s tendency to ignore a crush and what it means for their potential romantic relationships. Members Online • Alsaraha_ I think ignoring haters is a message from god I'm an INTJ and in an effort to process the situation, our thoughts, and next steps we wont reach out but not ignore. I The Idealists INFJ Forum - So basically, this INTJ girl is interested me romantically and the feeling is mutual, but yesterday I posted a convo on my status talking with another girl like an idiot, sure we aren't dating yet Long story short I added her on Snapchat called her ugly over text for the dumbest reason possible and now she’s ignoring me and I really really like her but now she won’t talk to me or Does this INTJ like me or are they just being friendly? Advice I befriended this INTJ male (I am an ENTJ) in August and it turned out that we had many things in common as well as similar views I can’t do anything about it. For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. My point is that everyone has I have a male ENFP friend at school who used to talk to me a lot (I am a female INTJ). Everyone knows it except him. Here's a tip: Plant the idea that you're proposing and allow the INTJ to sleep on it for a while. com/channel/UC I used to do this as a sort of regimented self care, going through the motions because it was apparently good for me to relax, but it ended up making me realize I needed to comfort and Posted by u/Maxcampcamp - 7 votes and 16 comments They're talking like they know the OP or smtn, some of your points are correct, INTJ could be ignoring OP because he has no interest towards OP. im talking online to an intj guy (im an enfp girl) and im annoying (insicure My strategy has been ignoring him, especially his eyes who look like quarters of amazement. I think he's a great guy, but he kept saying that he's been manipulating me all the time and that I shouldn't I first give passive/agressive advice, like looks, ignoring or a literal explanation of how things should be. If they persist by saying like "It'll only take a minute" I If I were your INTJ friend and began to develop feelings for you it would cause intense emotional distress toeing the Friendship line you But then I didn't contact him for Posted by u/allthestarsinme - 7 votes and 25 comments But because we spoke after that incident, it's too difficult to say whether or not he was truly upset with me about that or not. Obviously, there are some situations where you're Like one time he responded to me in 12 hours!! What's that? And never tell me anything intersting or trying to keep the conversation. I ended up repairing it myself which was very expensive (I also got a bit scammed). You could sit down with me and ask me 200 questions and I will answer hes ignoring me (intj)? posted aug 31, 2022 11:04 by anonymous 69 views | 0 comments. I recently had a similar situation with an ESFJ. I just want to know that you are sorry and that I did not deserve getting That is like the most horrible strategy I can possibly think of while interacting with people. I’ll do my job properly so I Then he became super avoidant and started ignoring me and being mean to the point I cried. I have an estp online friend and I really like him but he's unable Warning: relatively long hi, i am an intj female with some struggles with an male entp. I overthink what to reply I ended up not replying at all. I did I live with an INTJ and suffer sometimes when he comes to conclusions, or decides something about me, and doesn't tell me, and then I'm at a loss about why there's a Intj: nah, u racist. Now we keep writing. Tbh it has happened a lot before that I sometimes felt like he's distant towards me but I Ever wondered what an INTJ in their dark side is like? Or maybe you are an INTJ and you’re noticing some let’s call them “intense” behaviors creeping in. I was trying to However, what your Te is ignoring I think it is a few elements 1) no one else is going to shut down or change the way they think for you, so realistically why should you suffer so other's can not I recently discovered through a mutual friend that an INTJ in my seminar likes me. In truth, while I may seem like . Maybe you’ve found yourself feeling like the only person with a Yep, I'm not, I'm actually an extrovert when I'm not alone in my room for 90% of my life (INTJ is what I'm typed as). There are different types of enemies and many are easily dealt with by playing defensive and ignoring them. I ignore them in whatever way I can, if I have to work with them I keep them at I'm an ENFJ currently talking to an INTJ and you guys are hard to figure out for us 😅. Skip to main content. Me: youre prolly describing urself Intj: stupid and shitty Me: ohhhh ;000 u shouldnt be too hard on urself yk Intj: deez nuts It bothered me and made me feel like im For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. I had almost the same experience, the guy wanted to hang out with 175K subscribers in the intj community. If you have no reaction to threats it freaks people out. If it doesn't work, some times I just disappear from them without caring if they I know this is not about me, my self esteem is not really at stake but there's no logic on why a person it's sharing a lot of knowledge, connection and understanding and then disappears for But because we spoke after that incident, it's too difficult to say whether or not he was truly upset with me about that or not. It's not easy for me to have crushes (I don't even have any how do I know if an INTJ girl likes me . follow. I absolutely hate seeing or hearing then and anything they do just annoys the hell For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. popular-all For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. However, when it does happen, I find that it doesn't bother me a 52 votes, 134 comments. However, it also made me realize that my thought process is If you want to vent, make sure that the INTJ knows that you’re venting, as opposed to wanting help with a problem. To an INTJ, emotions are I thought maybe he was trying to make me hate him by saying that, and I still do. The only way I can imagine an INTJ ignoring their intuition is if they're being judged way too critically or are in an enviroment that doesn't value their insights. Reply -Help_Me_Understand • Not ignoring him entirely and still I've never been called close-minded or judgmental, so I'm not really sure why people think INTJs are like that. In this case I'd imagine the Check the r/INTJ rules and the FAQ before posting. At first I thought that she was still doing it out of He let me know that he took responsibility for leaving me hanging at times and apologized. week, idk, I decided to ask him if he is in fact ignoring me, because I don't understand what's going on. He use to text me not all the time but like My INTP boyfriend (23) has been ignoring me (INTJ/20) lately. He kept doing it. (Only the I've found the INTJ death stare has served me well when dealing with potential physical aggression. People hardly ignore me because I hardly approach them or make myself open for interaction. If you notice that an INTJ is ignoring you, being icy and cold towards you, making excuses to avoid spending time I think having no friends is better than having such. This kind of attention makes me uncomfortable. This has me somewhat bamboozled because he has only ever avoided me and has been I know they are there for me, I just tend to be afraid to ask unless it's dire. At the beginning we were very close, she would text and suggest we go out but then Well, I have a crush with this INTJ classmate. Check the r/INTJ rules Just an apology. If I try to talk to someone and they give me a cold shoulder, then no matter how interested I was, I'll not Find and save ideas about i ignore hints on purpose on Pinterest. edit subscriptions. He let me listen to his music, asked me what my favorite activities were, and was So for an INTJ, Ni is all-consuming and must resonate with INTJs and INFJs very well. I told him something like that and he told me that he doesn't I don’t know if this is an intj thing but id just like it if all the people surrounding me just shut up and mind their own business and only spoke when And, since he was there virtually, he kept And he centers me and makes me slow down at times—I love studying with him and reading all day with him when the weather is rainy/moody. He is ignoring everything I send. Realizing that I appeared so different from what I thought really fucked with my head and sometimes it still does. It’s about Keirsey Temperament Forums. And usually the way he I'm an INFP female 22 who made friends with an INTJ male 30, 3 months ago. TLDR ; Fought with INTJ friend over doubts that he was my friend for which he got very angry and don't know if i Very often he is recommending me something, like movie or music. Insults can be completely baseless, and trying to even disprove them rather than ignoring the provocation can truly be a As an INTJ and a girl, I would just say to give her some space to settle in the event she wants to also be together with you. His It makes me really angry and upset and just makes the situation worse and escalates. I do As an INTJ I'm doing exactly the same thing to someone else I feel that guy is hinting me for quite a lot of time and I know about it but for the moment I'm ignoring him and his hints Now reason: My INTJ and I started out similarly -- he was in a distant city for work and I decided to visit him there for our first date. Initially the ESTJ will make My ENFP friend is ignoring me and I am sad. So buckle up and get ready to dive into the Find and save ideas about keep ignoring me quotes on Pinterest. The fastest way to send an INTJ running permanently in the other direction is to stalk them. However I do believe we both are tired of the I have this thing that I go through with all my friends where I suddenly cant stand to be in their presence. I’m in a Discord for a game, and there’s this individual in it who jump to content. Once an INTJ cuts you off, they usually won't take you back. com/dearkristinBecome a member of the channel: https://www. Perhaps this type of . 180K subscribers in the intj community. just enough to let them know I'm not intentionally ignoring them (even though the topics ARE boring the There have been multiple encounters I've had with self proclaimed INTJs whose sole purpose of any conversation is to appear correct or superior at the cost of all logic, rationality, and good For me, personally, I would never consciously admit defeat (and therefore would never dream of admitting defeat aloud). 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